Hallo yonsisac. If I correct you, it will be with the intention of helping and nothing else. Hopefully nobody has to go ballistic haha. Welcome to the forums.
As for myself, medical update: it was my mother, and she has had major (brain) surgery. I am alright. She is alright. My family is alright. She's recovering and more like herself than she has been in a long time. My language/tone right now is coming across as rather emotionally sparse at this time, but it is a part of how I cope. I mean, I know I've yammered about getting sickish when I'm stressed, but that is apparently a social thing. This blew right past that, into get-shit-done territory.
She's quite possibly coming home tomorrow or Tuesday, and we are vigilantly excited for her return. Thank you to those who offered help during this dark and challenging week, knowing we had lifelines we could reach for has helped us as a family to stay steady.